I choose my routine very carefully. First, I spend dozens of hours researching ingredients and hand selecting brands to try. To avoid hair loss, products need to have nonirritating and nontoxic ingredients. Once I choose a product to use every day, I reach out to the brand, not the other way around. If I switch my routine, I change my recommendations to keep them top quality.
Firsthand
Clay pomade that I've found to be the most sweatproof. Keeps 2-6 inch hair in style for ~10 hours. Out of all styling products I've seen, this one has the most nonirritating/nontoxic ingredients on EWG and CosDNA. Sulfate free, drying alcohol free, and water based. Can buy for $20 on Amazon or $18 on the Firsthand site with code 'mitfades'.
Maple Holistics
Minty shampoo and conditioner. I found about 3 shampoos with the most nonirritating/nontoxic ingredients on EWG and CosDNA, but this one smelled the best. Sulfate free and drying alcohol free. Can buy for $18 on Amazon.